Make sure your
child has a quiet, well-lit place to do homework.
Avoid having your child do homework with the television on or in places
with other distractions, such as people coming and going.
Make sure the materials
your child needs, such as paper, pencils and a dictionary, are
available.
Ask your child if special materials will be needed for some projects and
get them in advance.
Help your child with time
management.
Establish a set time each day for doing homework. Don't let your child
leave homework until just before bedtime. Think about using a weekend
morning or afternoon for working on big projects, especially if the
project involves getting together with classmates.
Be positive about homework.
Tell your child how important school is. The attitude you express about
homework will be the attitude your child acquires.
When your child does
homework, you do homework.
Show your child that the skills they are learning are related to things
you do as an adult. If your child is reading, you read too. If your
child is doing math, balance your checkbook.
When your child asks for
help, provide guidance, not answers.
Giving answers means your child will not learn the material. Too much
help teaches your child that when the going gets rough, someone will do
the work for him or her.
When the teacher asks that
you play a role in homework, do it.
Cooperate with the teacher. It shows your child that the school and home
are a team. Follow the directions given by the teacher.
If homework is meant to be
done by your child alone, stay away.
Too much parent involvement can prevent homework from having some
positive effects. Homework is a great way for kids to develop
independent, lifelong learning skills.
Stay informed.
Talk with your child's teacher. Make sure you know the purpose of
homework and what your child's class rules are.
Help your child figure out
what is hard homework and what is easy homework.
Have your child do the hard work first. This will mean he will be most
alert when facing the biggest challenges. Easy material will seem to go
fast when fatigue begins to set in.
Watch your child for signs
of failure and frustration.
Let your child take a short break if she is having trouble keeping her
mind on an assignment.
Reward progress in
homework.
If your child has been successful in homework completion and is working
hard, celebrate that success with a special event (e.g., pizza, a walk,
a trip to the park) to reinforce the positive effort.
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